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Thursday
December 2002 – 9am
My name Cathe Ross and I am
the fortunate human with whom Precious has consented to
live.
My first Am Staff mix, Buddy,
died a few days before Christmas in 2001. He died happy
and in my arms but I was so lonely without him. I knew I
had to get a dog soon. There was no question in my mind
that I was going to get another pit bull because of my excellent
experience with Buddy. My thoughts turned to a dog named
Precious whose rescue story I had read about on the PBRC
web site. I had always thought she and Buddy would make
a good pair but had hesitated because I was renting. Now,
it was too late for him to meet her but I still could.
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I emailed Precious’ rescuer,
Megan, to start the dialogue. Fortunately, she remembered
me from some email we had exchanged concerning Precious.
Through email, I cried on her shoulder a bit, and then
posed the big question about whether Precious was ready
emotionally to be adopted. She said that if the right
person came along, she be fine. I told her I was interested.
Megan immediately called me and invited me, a total
stranger, to stay at her house to see if I would like
Precious. Little did I know that Megan’s generous offer
to stay at her house was highly indicative of Megan’s
generosity that she extends to everyone. I already knew
I liked Precious and told her that. But, she insisted
that I not make up my mind so quickly but to visit and
then make a decision. Between you and me, I knew
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February 1st,
2002, I drove from Salt Lake City, Utah to Sacramento (10
hours) to visit my new dog. The first days were spent with
her barking at me out of fear. I just wanted to hug her and
make the fear go away. Instead, Megan gave me the job of
feeding all of her dogs so Precious, the food hog, would get
positive feelings towards me. By the end of every day,
Precious would no longer bark at me. Then at night, she
would "reset", and in the morning, she would be
back to barking at me again like she had never met me. The
third or forth night, Megan put Precious in my room to try
to get her used to me. It worked. But, the biggest turning
point came when I let Precious eat off of my plate of nachos
while I was still eating. Normally, this would not be a good
thing for a dog to do, but in the case of Precious, most of
those rules do not apply. I could not rebuff her being in
contact with me or her trust of me would have taken a step
backwards. After that, she would sit on the same couch as
me, let me pet her in the car, and most exciting of all, she
would let me look at her!
After about a week of getting
acquainted, it was time for us to go home. I was worried
about taking her away from her family of dogs and Megan.
How would she feel? Megan once again reassured me. I was
not really convinced because she was such a momma’s girl.
At the same time as my visit,
Megan was helping out another Sacramento rescuer by taking
care of some of her dogs. One of those dogs was a corgi-mix
called Tiggie (or Tiger).
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with the similar name, he bounced up and down as if
he had springs in his legs. Precious went out of her
way to make friends. Both Precious and I were attached
to him. I knew that if I took Precious home alone, things
would be pretty rough on her. So, I contacted Tiggie’s
rescuer and adopted him also. I always joke and tell
people that Precious has her own dog but in reality,
he is both of ours and completes our little family. |
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So, the three of us left
town. Since my car was a stick shift and so much louder than
Megan’s luxurious Suburban, Precious spent the whole trip
hiding on the floor of the car underneath my coats. Tiggie
happily road in a dog carrier. I was excited to start a life
with these two marvelous dogs.
I still had one more week of
time off of work to get everyone settled in. I purposely
took off time during the 2002 Salt Lake Olympics because
of the large influx of people attending sport events. The
first day home, Precious spent her time in the carrier next
to my bed. One of my cats (I have 2) kept an eye on her
from atop the bed. I kept checking on her to take outside
but she would run back into in the carrier. She pottied
right there on the bedroom floor. I started getting worried
at my inability to make her comfortable with new her surroundings.
That evening, Megan called to see how we were doing and
I cried. She told me to put on her leash, pull her out of
the carrier into the yard, and introduce her to the backyard
so she could potty. Then, she instructed me to pull Precious
up on the sofa, pet her and talk to her. I did both things
and that broke the whole situation wide open. Soon she was
running around in the backyard with her new brother – in
the Utah snow. Although Precious was from Chicago, she did
not remember snow was cold and she jumped up in shock at
first contact.
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After a three-month period
of re-learning her potty training, Precious has flourished.
We cuddle when she first gets up in the morning. She
then spends the day sleeping while I am at work. At
night we either go for a walk, take a ride or both.
She has learned to trust my family. She is on petting
terms with my niece. She likes my sister because my
sister has a similar voice (as mine). She seems to
like quiet people like my Dad right away. She loves
my mom’s beagle and a friend’s Doberman. But, Precious
has not been able to convince her corgi brother that
cuddling while sleeping is a good thing.
Not every day is peaches
and cream for Precious. Some days she is jumpy and
will not allow me to touch her. She goes into some
kind of survival mode. I have developed ways to break
through to her to let her know all is well.
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I will remind her of a bone
that she loves to chew or I will giggle for longer than
any sane person would until she kind of breaks out of herself
and looks at me.Just yesterday, Precious would not lie on
a new doggie bed I had bought until I took the tag off.
The tag scared her too much. I don’t mind doing those little
things for her. I want her to get pleasure out of life.
If it means I have to ease her into a life full of new things
more slowly than most dogs, I’ll do it. It really is worth
it. She gives so much back
I would like to take the time
to express to all of Precious’ rescuers a heart felt THANK
YOU! All your work has not gone to nothing. She was (is)
worth the effort. Thank you for going with your gut and
giving this sweet little pittie a chance!! My life would be
really sad and boring without her.
Megan, you rock!! I am your
biggest fan!
Cathe Ross, Salt Lake City,
UT
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